Why we say yes when we want to say no?
Posted by Viraj Shah on August 5, 2007
There are times when we are not able to say no to someone even though we want to, but why is it that we are not able to say No? Well there maybe quite a few no of reasons which make us say yes.
Here are few of them.
Either we love that person so much that we can’t say No
We may not want to hurt someone, thinking that he/she might break the relationship
Thinking what other’s will think, If we say No
Or Even though you can’t help the other person but you would still like or love to help him or her then in that case also you won’t say No.
It is important to use the word No in life even though if you don’t like it, when you can’t help or do something about a situation or an circumstance, But the way you say No also matters a lot rather than committing on something which you can’t do and then repenting.
So always say No when you want to say No and not Yes.
shalini said
Dear Viraj
Your article is good. I agree with your logic that one should learn the art of saying no for things you are not comfortable with.
Regards
Shalini
ritesh said
Its a meaningful article.Keep it up